orginal source here

SELECT * FROM sys.dm_exec_query_memory_grants where grant_time is null

--Find who uses the most query memory grant:

SELECT mg.granted_memory_kb, mg.session_id, t.text, qp.query_plan
FROM sys.dm_exec_query_memory_grants AS mg
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(mg.sql_handle) AS t
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_query_plan(mg.plan_handle) AS qp
ORDER BY 1 DESC OPTION (MAXDOP 1)

--Search cache for queries with memory grants:

SELECT t.text, cp.objtype,qp.query_plan
FROM sys.dm_exec_cached_plans AS cp
JOIN sys.dm_exec_query_stats AS qs ON cp.plan_handle = qs.plan_handle
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_query_plan(cp.plan_handle) AS qp
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(qs.sql_handle) AS t
WHERE qp.query_plan.exist(‘declare namespace n=”http://schemas.microsoft.com/sqlserver/2004/07/showplan“; //n:MemoryFractions’) = 1

--There are few other things I would like you to check for queries running on system.

Select granted_query_memory,session_id,command from sys.dm_exec_requests